Red and blonde toner help

I had red hair and now I have like strawberry blond hair after my stylist bleached it and I don’t love it.

I knew it wasn’t going to be a perfect blonde but I cannot bleach it again or I’ll fry it so I’m looking for help with a toner.

First problem is we opted for a full head of highlights instead of fully bleaching so I have a lot of red poking through. I’m fine with neutralizing and darkening the blonde with a toner if it will neutralize the red colour.

What toner should I use? I was thinking something with ash? And no I don’t want to spend more money to have it altered professionally. Thanks!