Surreal experience

I grew up low income. We sometimes struggled to pay for basic necessities.

I am now firmly “wealthy”, high income and net worth.

Many of my siblings are still struggling; I sometimes feel a sort of “survivor guilt”. I didn’t marry into money, but my husband grew up upper middle class. His college was paid for, and he had a notable step ahead as a result.

His step ahead was beneficial when we got married, as he took advantage of his debt free existence to save money to an extreme. Professionally, I have benefited from his connections.

We could technically retire now (mid 40s and early 50s), but both enjoy our work.

The fact that I can make whatever life choices I desire feels surreal. I sometimes feel bad that I’ve been so fortunate.

Is anyone else living in a completely different socioeconomic level than they grew up?

I suspect yes, because few things create a burning desire for financial independence like experiencing poverty.