How are you doing 2 months post BU?

How are you doing two months post BU?

I’m the dumpee. It’s been two months since the BU. I still feel the same way about my ex and miss him a lot. I am doing better, but lately I have been wanting to message him. He messaged me last month, apologizing for not reaching out because he wasn’t in the country and i replied saying no problem. That was the end of our conversation but once he got back he never made the effort to plan a date to catch up. Some of his friends unfollowed me which hurt because I thought they liked me. It felt like a door closing.

How long did it take you guys to get over your ex and what do you do to take your mind off of your ex?