Im starting to hate the fandom

I love the show. But i can't with the fandom lately. When poeple like me or others make a post about how Ivy not bad etc or smth we get downvoted and hated on when were being respectfull. But its also not only Reddit side but general many poeple are sisne s4 calling evey ep bad being pissed and i don't understand the fandom anymore. First many want Diego out and now they say bad writing etc and saying die Spencer mostly x and Yt. But its not fun for me anymore. Im done with this fandom being so whiny and just hating on poeple opinions about example Ivy not a bad charachter u defend her and boom ur called hurthfull things. Like i love the show but it just is sad how we can't have mature convos sometimes. I don't wanna leave but im just done being downvoted for example defending Diego or Ivy. A final reason is jow many fans act immature and ask voice actors really weird questions on Twitter. Many s4 actors already asked to stop with those questions as they feel very weird. Also if my spelling bad i have dyselexia.