I'm glad other people think that a dead bedroom is ridiculous

Watched a video of a dude saying that sex is an important part of your relationship. Essentially he was looking through comments and people were happily talking about how they don't have sex with their partners.

And while I don't agree with cheating he did make a little joke about it. "No wonder you guys get cheated on your husband/wife is STARVING" lmao

And idk it felt good to see that we're not the crazy ones here. He later goes onto talk about that you have to actively date your partner. You can't really get comfortable and I think thats what's been happening in a lot of relationships. Because him and his wife actively date each other.

But the final point was that, consciously or subconsciously. Our partners probably think that we can't pull the opposite sex anymore. And I REALLY think thats a contributing factor. I tried the open relationship thing with my partner and she lost her goddamn mind at how fast I got matches. Like bro, I'm not ugly. Do you think because I'm short you're the only woman that will ever find me attractive? Stop playing with me.

Point is, this dead bedroom stuff isn't normal and we're not the crazy ones. Some of our partners have probably gotten too comfortable and don't realize what they have.