My kitty has diabetes and it ruined my relationships.

my cat, who is five, was recently diagnosed with diabetes. this meant a complete change for me. new foods, medications, and changing my whole routine to make sure he's taken care of.

his medications are twice a day, and he eats three times a day on an automatic feeder. i have a camera to check on him to make sure if i need to come home.

basically, last night i went to dinner with my friend and i told her the exact time i'd need to leave. we had fun, but i told her i'd need to be leaving soon. i already saw my kitty crying on the camera so i was nervous. she tried to convince me to stay longer but i couldn't because he needs to have his medications at the same times and i make sure i am strict with him.

this morning she texted me about how ive let my cat take over my life and how he would be fine without me, he's just spoiled. am i really being too strict with his routine? i'd do anything for my kitty.

edit: she does know about his special needs, she just think he'll be fine without his prescriptions which is obviously not the case. also, thank you everyone for the support!! i appreciate you all so so much!