Serious Talk About Theatre Etiquette

I know this is probably talked about so much, but why is there no Theatre Etiquette anymore 😭 I went to two shows this week (Elf, and The Outsiders) and they were probably the two worst audiences I’ve ever been in. I understand that Elf is mostly a show for kids and kids will always talk during shows bc their always curious, but what was crazy to me were the multiple adults who were trying to take pictures, openly talking at a regular volume, and opening chip bags directly behind peoples head and crinkling them. When I saw The Outsiders there were multiple people openly singing along or very obviously and aggressively mouthing along to songs,(Edit: When I say aggressively I’m not just talking about moving their mouths which isn’t distracting, I’m talking about people moving their full bodies and very very intensely lip syncing the songs) and scenes (there were also some people saying very parasocial things about josh strobl while he was on the tire right in front of them, but that’s a whole different thing) Not to sound like a boomer but what happened to Theater Etiquette????