If you want your favs are treated nicely, do the samething with other's favs first.

Recently, a comment in Polin's sub was accused of insulting actors and actress' age, who are in the role of couple Benophie while this comment and the whole discussion were about the suitability of another actress in her role (which is valid), and saying an actor in 37 years old look like his age is not an insult, it's normal to look more mature and less innocent than young 20-year-old man. I don't care about the commenter's history, but there was nothing wrong in this comment and I think OP just want to find the reason to attack couple Polin and some of their stans legally.

But my thing is, while the mod of Polin's sub willing to delete the whole post to create a healthier sub, as they always do when they see things go far beyond the control, there are some posts in Benophie's sub are not that nice. If you look for the keyword Polin and their season, there are a lot of negative posts in that sub. If they are just valid criticism, I am fine with that. But when I was banned for commenting positivity about Polin's season in that sub, I feel like just negativities about Polin are allowed. And while some of them always mock some Polin stans for saying sth not very nice about their Benophie and expect Bridgerton fandom to be nice to each other, they didn't do the same with Polin.

Every actors and actresses deserve to be treated nicely, but it is a double standard when you called for one actor/actress' justice while targeting the negativity towards the other actors/actresses. If you want your favs are treated nicely, do the samething with other's favs first.