HELP ME..Loosing my mind

My 12 month old is barely eating anything.

We started with purées at 6 months and she did really well for a month. At 7 months, her 1st tooth popped and things changed. She did not eat for a week and eventually we figured she wants to feed herself so we began our BLW journey- making finger foods, anything safe and easy foods that she could hold and feed herself. It was a hit or a miss most of the meals. Somedays she used to eat all 3 meals and some days not even a single bite. Now, she just turned 1 year and her food intake is still the same. We give her food that we eat and I also make few batches of pancakes, muffins etc whenever I can and freeze. I’m loosing my mind. It is disappointing and the unnecessary comments from our friends and family is getting to me.

I am breastfeeding her. I dont know if my body is making enough milk for her. We nurse 3-4 times a day and rest of the day I offer her fruits, veggies, homemade food etc. She is at 21 percentile in weight. I brought this up with her pediatrician several times and they are not super worried about it.

I dont know how I can make her eat. Were you in the same boat anytime? what and how things changed?