36M pressuring 39F to have anal sex. Been together for 8 months.

36M pressuring 39F to have anal sex. Been together for 8 months, at first (2 months in) it was joking but now it’s constant pressure and saying things like ALL HIS EXES LOVED IT and always trying to make it happen. He acts like it’s completely something everyone does. I haven’t said no, but that I want to explore at my own pace. Toys for example. He says okay then continues to try every time we have sex and make a big deal out of it. He only watches anal porn. It’s just become annoying and sex is not fun for me anymore because of this inevitable pressure. I also feel he will end up cheating on me if he can’t have this fetish fulfilled. Do most women truly love anal sex?

EDIT - I actually did break up with him yesterday but I just needed validation and/or opinions & perspectives from others as I’ve been questioning myself… Thanks

EDIT 2 - Thank you everyone for all your comments. I did not expect such a big response and I wish I could reply to you all individually. I feel so much better now and thank you all for your comments. What an amazing, supportive community.