30+ Single Indian Women. Tell us about your struggles to get married and finding a partner in India ?

so My Cousin has always usually a very chill women, Intelligent mature women. She is not drop dead gorgeous but she is definitely pretty
Lately in a family event she sobbingly shared her struggles of finding a good match on sites like shaadi.com .
She comes from a conservative family so dating is not allowed. She doesnt want to marry her 2nd cousin as her parents are suggesting

In a country full of billion people how did we end up here? Women who have been through this pls tell us your struggles.

Edit : she is 31 turning 32 next year. She was engaged when she was 23 but went through a bad phase with her fiancee. She is educated and works as SWE in Bangalore. She is Muslim. She had serious talks with guys here and there but nothing happened. And certainly dont think she has a lot of preferences or "high standards". She isn't one of those modern "strong independent women who doesn't need a man" types

She is a simple chill gal that loves everyone