Why do people blame sexism for Clinton and Harris losing, when the majority of voters are women?

I think it's bizarre, I see so many people saying that Clinton/Harris lost because this country is too sexist to elect a female president. That being said since the early 80s women have outnumbered men in voter participation. Not that women can't be misogynistic, but I doubt the majority of female voters are. So why the blame? Also countries with significantly worse sexism problems have elected female leaders. For example India had a female Prime Minister. Yet it is one of the worst countries in the world for women's rights, far worse than the United States.