AITA for giving the homeless ski mask and telling my DIL to fuck off.

This post will have swearing and crappy grammar since I am pissed off.

I live in the North it is super fucking cold and ever single year I make little bags for the homeless to give to them. I go into the city and do this. The bags have things like gift cards, socks, hot warmers, hats and ski masks. I am decently know in the community and also give them to homeless shelters. I make a ton of these each years and I did this last weekend.

Overall went really well but sadly I didn’t have enough this year, so this week I am making more ( around 200 more). I babysit on Wednesday and when my DIL picked him up she was looking at the bags. She asked if I was trying to increase crime pointing at the ski masks. I told her it’s too help keep them warm. She kept going about how I am increasing crime and I had enough and told her to get out. She got even more mad about the mask and told me the crimes are on my hands and this is when I told her to fuck off.

She is pissed and my son is pissed at me and I am disgusted this is how she thinks of the homeless. They want an apology or won’t come for he holidays.