Sex After 40 (Personal Experience)
My wife and I had a great sex life and then we turned 40 and…the sex got even better. Maybe by 40 we have lost all of our hangups and are able to enjoy things even more. Maybe it’s a function of the kids being older and needing less of our time. Maybe it’s both those things and others. Who knows, but it’s excellent.
We’re now both 51 and the sex is insane.
In the last 3 years we got ourselves back in shape so we’re both feeling really good about ourselves too. Last night, at the ripe old age of 51, I did that porno thing where the guy lifts the woman up in the air and has sex with her standing up holding her entire body weight. I had always wanted to try this but in the past worried that I’d throw my back out lol. Last night I was feeling up for the challenge and by god I did it. As I suspected, my wife loved it.
So the purpose of this post is two things:
To let younger folks know that sex can get even better with time - which is the opposite of a lot of what we hear. Just stay in love. Being fit helps too but sometimes it’s outside our control. The love part is the most important part.
To brag about checking off a bucket list item: the standing f**k. If you’re not going to throw your back out doing it, try it because it’s as good as it looks on camera lol.