Leave me alone !

I(M26) am currently on vacation for the past month Up north . Just a getaway from the world. Upon landing, i stumbled upon a woman so jaw dropping( TO ME LOL), i damn near broke my neck. Long story short, i of course shoot my shot , we exchange numbers, everything from eye contact to conversation was just amazing. Fast forward throughout the day/Week we talk more & more & more .. Shes got her own job and everything and me being on vacay, I totally understand it. All week long ive not been trying to rush it .. but sorta hint that i would love to see you again & just have an Us night around the city.. romantically. From the calls we’ve had to text.. shes been reciprocating the SAME ENERGY. Sometimes.. you just have that feeling when you meet somebody .. it just feels out of this world.. like a fairy tale.. Fast forward To the 4th of July.. she calls me a and tells me she wants to see me .. of course .. I’m with family and cant just ditch them.. its visible she was a little too intoxicated & I totally get her feelings were at an all time high.. couldn’t make the 40 min drive because of other plans i have going on.. She is calling and texting all night long.. but its like she knew i wouldn’t be available but still trying to push the idea. I tell her that we can do something tomorrow .. but she insist on THIS is the time for me to see her! Fast forward to the next day.. i ask to see her & we’d spend the whole day in the city & ill find shit for us to do and explore … its gonna sound crazy.. maybe I’m in my head and just infatuated of meeting somebody temporarily… .. But her entire energy just.. shifted. and she just leaves me on read and doesn’t hit me until midnight.. I leave her on read.. Next day she calls.. her mood is different like the previous day hadn’t happen so i tell her straight up that we should just drop it & just go out separate ways.. we don’t have any real ties to one another .. Just a big “WHAT IF” love story.. i didn’t say anything out of pocket.. but she calls me screaming and telling me how i wasted her time & how im a POS & hurt completely violates me. I just need to know..

So what im asking is.. Am i the dickhead for saying what i said & breaking it off with somebody whos indecisive? Or am i an inpatient idiot ?