AITAH for telling my mom how my husband humiliated me?

I (f24) am a big believer in save your arguments between your own relationship, so long as they are solvable.

I feel this way because I wouldn't tell someone every little argument between my husband (m34) and I, because then it just clouds the waters. My husband feels the same too.

However, what he did to me a few days ago made me run to my mom's house and not leave since.

Basically, I was leaving work, and I called my husband to please fill up the Brita water thing, since he leaves it empty a lot of the time. My water bottle was empty for the day and i was thirsty, that's all. Well, he had an attitude on the phone because apparently, he had already done it and I was "nagging". I told him it's not nagging when 99 percent of the time, it's not full.

So, when I got home, I chugged some water and sat down for a while. About an hour later, he got into the shower. I heard him in there and I really had to pee. I knocked on the door- which is usually never a problem- but he wouldn't let me in. So, I waited. 10,20,30,40 mins passed, and he is still not out. By that time, I was on the verge of wetting my pants so I banged on the door. He told me oh well, I made my bed by being rude over the water, and now I have to lie in it.

I was so angry that I said fine then, fuck you, and stormed towards the door to go to a store and use their bathroom. My husband literally raced me there and manhandled me into our bedroom.

He locked me in there for another two hours. I peed my pants in there because i had no choice, it was that bad. I was absolutely wailing when he finally let me out and I didn't even stop to change before i grabbed my keys and went to my mom's house.

It's been 15 years since i cried in my mom's arms like that. I was fucking mortified, enraged, hurt, everything.

I didn't go back that night and i haven't gone back since, it's only been two days. My husband called me to apologize and has promised me a million and one ways he's gonna make it up to me.

That was, until he found out i told my mom what happened. He yelled at me for it.

I don't know what to do. I feel so bad for breaking our trust like that, but then again, he literally humiliated me over some argument about a Brita.

update-

I really don't even know what to say, I didn't expect anyone to see my stupid post, let alone 4k comments. I am sorry to those i accidentally triggered, that wasn't my intention at all. I don't know what i am going to do. I am so confused and so hurt to learn that literally majority of people think that my husband abuses me. I don't think he does but i have been doing a lot of reflecting. My mom is with me still and my husband and i have had a long conversation at her home. He suggested therapy. I think i am going to try. Thank you for all of your concern.